I'm
writing in response to Starshine Roshell's column "Period
Parties."
Because
my book, Moon Mother, Moon Daughter ~ Myths and Rituals that Celebrate a
Girl's Coming of Age, co-authored with Terri Allison, was used as a
resource, I appreciate the opportunity to clarify the context and expand the
conversation regarding "first period" rituals.
Moon
Mother, Moon Daughter was written in part as a response to
the strong feelings and negative perspectives like those expressed in the
column — the trauma, and consequent body shame, that can lead to disorders and
diseases in girls and women. Many women today are seeking to reclaim their
power, heal, and transform the narrative of the coming-of-age experience for
themselves and their daughters by recalling the wisdom of ancient traditions
and rituals.
We
state clearly these specific rituals aren't for everyone, and there are many
ways to acknowledge a girl's first period with respect for her comfort and
wishes. We include other less "spiritual" suggestions and more intimate
mother-daughter connections.
The
book is an expansive celebration of the feminine, and it includes essential
topics for girls and women, i.e., trusting intuition, finding one's voice,
exploring dreams, discovering one's gifts, creating community, and more.
Moon
Mother, Moon Daughter continues to reach and inspire women
around the world. I’m devoted to continuing this work, seeking and sharing the
wisdom of cultures who respect and honor the feminine and the earth.