Q: Marsha, we bought our house six years ago. It was perfect at that time, and we still love many of the home’s features. But now, two babies later, we are feeling somewhat cramped. How do you know when it’s time to upsize? Is it better to purchase a larger house or remodel your current one?
A: There are two questions here. I’ll start by answering your first one. What are the telltale signs a family needs a larger house? There are quite a few signals that more space is needed. I’ll give you a few and you decide if these fit your situation. The first and most relevant to you is that your family has grown. A house that felt spacious with two adults feels like a fishbowl with two children added in. It’s not just two more humans; it’s everything that goes with having kids. They have lots of toys, books, clothes, art projects, and friends. Children often bring non-humans such as cats, dogs, hamsters, and birds into a household.
Another clue you need more room could be your outdoor living space now feels like a postage stamp. Is your lawn large enough for soccer, baseball, and outdoor birthday parties? Consider dedicated space for new hobbies and interests that come with children. Expanding families means more furniture and simply stuff galore.